Motivation

Words of Encouragement for Someone Taking a Big Risk

Devin The Vibe Check Project

Quitting a safe corporate job to start a business. Packing up an apartment and moving to a city where they know no one. Ending a comfortable but stagnant relationship.

When someone takes a massive leap of faith, society usually responds by projecting their own fears onto them ("Are you sure that's a good idea? What if you fail?"). The absolute best thing you can do as their friend is to be the counterweight to that fear.

Your job isn't to guarantee them success. Your job is to validate their courage. Here are templates to send them right as they are stepping off the edge.

Fear-Busting Texts and Templates

1. The Reality Check

Remind them that the fear they are feeling is proof that they are doing exactly what they are supposed to do.

"I know you're terrified right now, but I want you to remember that growth and comfort cannot exist in the same room. You are doing the hard thing, and I am so deeply impressed by you."

2. The "Safety Net" Anchor

Taking a risk feels like walking a tightrope without a net. Tell them you are the net.

Don't just read it. Send it.

Send an anonymous, beautifully designed digital affirmation card straight to their phone.

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"Just wanted to say no matter what happens with this leap, I've got your back. If it takes off, I'm buying the champagne. If it crashes, I'm bringing the pizza. Either way, you are safe."

3. The Regret Reframer

Focus them on the cost of *not* trying, rather than the risk of failing.

"I am so proud of you for having the guts to actually try this instead of just wondering 'what if' for the rest of your life. You are literally building your own life right now."