Big Changes

7 Affirmations to Send Someone Starting a New Job

Devin The Vibe Check Project

There is a hyper-specific kind of terror that comes with walking into an office (or logging onto a Zoom call) for the first day of a new job. Your brain immediately tries to convince you that you tricked everyone in the interview, you have no idea what you're doing, and they will figure it out by 10 AM.

This is classic Imposter Syndrome, and it hits almost everyone.

As their friend, your job on Day 1 is not to give them career advice. Your job is to be the hype squad. You need to remind them that they earned this position and they are entirely capable of handling it.

The Morning-Of Texts

Send one of these right when you know their alarm is going off, or while they are commuting.

1. The Imposter Syndrome Buster

"You belong in that room. They hired you because you are completely capable and they saw it. Don't let your brain tell you otherwise today. Crush it."

2. The Short & Punchy

"First day energy! ✨ Walk in there like you own the place. You're going to be amazing."

3. The Pressure Relief Valve

"Reminder for today: You don't have to know everything on Day 1. Your only job today is to figure out where the bathrooms are and how to log into your email. Proud of you!"

Hype them up with a digital card.

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The End-of-Day Texts

The 5 PM brain crash is real. Check in as they are wrapping up that overwhelming first day.

4. The Low-Bandwidth Check-In

"You survived! Don't even text me back, just wanted to say I'm proud of you. Treat yourself to takeout tonight."

5. The Celebration Invite

"Drinks/Dinner is on me this weekend to celebrate surviving week one. Let me know when you've recovered enough to leave the couch!"

Why Hype Texts Matter More Than You Think

When you are stepping into a new arena, your confidence is incredibly fragile. Having someone in your corner who believes in you unconditionally acts as a shield against that inner critic.

Send the text. Be the friend who reminds them how brilliant they are.